Overcoming Stage Fright: Secrets to Taming Performance Anxiety This Mental Health Month
- Bridgette Cooper
- May 6
- 4 min read
Mental Health Awareness Month is here, and it’s time to confront a common challenge: performance anxiety and stage fright. If you're an aspiring singer, a budding actor, or even someone who occasionally speaks in front of a group, these feelings can be daunting. Opera singers navigate a unique set of mental health challenges due to the intensity of our profession. But there’s hope! I hope you enjoy this blog post! It offers practical tips and insights to help you overcome stage fright and manage performance anxiety effectively.
Understanding Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety is that tight feeling in your chest right before you step into the spotlight. Even experienced artists face nerves, which can manifest as symptoms like sweating, a racing heart, or shaking hands. According to a study from the Journal of Anxiety, 70% of performers experience some level of anxiety before a performance.
Importantly, it affects more than just artists. Anyone who faces a crowd, including students giving presentations or athletes competing in front of fans, can experience this anxiety. Recognizing it as a common human experience is the first step toward managing it. I remember when I performed my very first solo in junior high school. I was so nervous, I remember stopping in the middle of the performance and literally saying "oops." My music teacher whispered. Take a deep breath, and let's start over. I sang the song, and everyone clapped. When my parents met me with flowers at the end of the show, my dad told me that stage fright is just your brain reacting to a situation and telling you something that is not really there. There is no reason to feel frightened. There is a reason to feel excited. People are there to hear you; they want you to do well. The first time I experienced this feeling of anxiety and dread was when I was 7 and taking lessons with the local youth orchestra. I took to the violin and loved it. When my violin teacher gave me a solo, I remember that feeling. I think I tried to get out of performing in public starting at the age of 7, until my music teacher in middle school had other plans for me, and secretly got my parents involved by telling them how I had such a beautiful voice and they had to come hear me.
The Science Behind Stage Fright
Stage fright is linked to our body's natural stress response. When we perceive a threat—like public speaking—our bodies activate a fight-or-flight response. This reaction can create an intense fear of judgment, affecting performance quality.
Understanding this biological response can alleviate some pressure. You are not alone in feeling this way; it’s a natural reaction. By acknowledging this, you can shift your focus toward managing your fears instead of allowing them to control you.
Practical Tips to Tame Performance Anxiety
Prepare, Prepare, Prepare
Thorough preparation can significantly reduce anxiety. Consider this: studies show that performers who practice their material multiple times report a 50% decrease in anxiety levels compared to those who do minimal practice. Familiarize yourself with your content and rehearse it several times, ideally in front of a mirror or a trusted friend. The more comfortable you are, the less anxious you'll feel.
Visualization Techniques
Visualization can be a powerful asset against stage fright. Picture yourself successfully delivering your performance and receiving applause. Research by the American Psychological Association found that athletes who visualize success can improve their performance by up to 30%.
Visualize not only the performance itself but also your preparation leading up to it. Envisioning calmness can significantly boost your confidence.
Utilize Breathing Exercises
Controlled breathing is an effective technique to manage anxiety and sharpen focus. For example, try this technique: inhale deeply for a count of four, hold for four, and exhale for another count of four. After just two or three rounds, you may feel a noticeable sense of calm. Studies have shown that regulated breathing can lower cortisol levels, which are linked to stress.
Grounding Techniques
Grounding techniques can help refocus your mind and alleviate anxiety. Take a moment to engage your senses: notice what you can see, hear, and feel. For instance, pay attention to the solid ground beneath your feet or the ambient sounds in the room. This practice can distract you from negative thoughts and help you regain control.
The Power of Positive Affirmations
The language we use when we talk to ourselves makes a huge difference. Create a set of affirmations that resonate with you, such as, “I am prepared and ready.” Research indicates that repeating positive affirmations can help reframe negative thoughts, ultimately boosting confidence.
As I continue to grow in my career. There is a lot of self-talk, or affirmations, that takes place prior to walking on stage. There are long periods of time that go by, and I simply don't think about doing this.
Seeking Support: Talk it Out
Sharing your feelings can significantly reduce anxiety. Talk to friends, family, or mentors about your experiences. They may provide comfort and advice that stems from their struggles with performance anxiety. You might be surprised to learn that many people have faced similar challenges.
Building Confidence Through Experience
Each performance you tackle is a steppingstone for growth. Start small, perhaps presenting to a handful of friends, before moving to larger audiences. Each successful experience helps build your confidence, making future performances feel less intimidating. A survey from an online learning platform found that 80% of participants felt more confident in their skills after performing in front of smaller audiences.
Celebrate Your Achievements
Make it a point to celebrate your successes, no matter how small. Recognizing your achievements reinforces positive feelings and encourages you to tackle the next challenge. Whether you nailed a performance or simply felt less anxious, take pride in your progress.

Embracing Your Performative Journey
Overcoming stage fright and performance anxiety is a journey that requires patience and practice. Each step taken is a victory worth celebrating. During this Mental Health Awareness Month, addressing these feelings can inspire personal growth and strengthen community understanding. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Each performance brings new insights and opportunities for personal and professional development.
Taking charge of your anxiety is not only crucial for your mental well-being but also vital for delivering memorable performances. So, embrace your strength, prepare, and remember: every performance is a chance to shine!
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