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How to Support an Opera Singer: Emotional and Practical Ways to Be There



Supporting your opera singer friends does not need to be hard. Just gather, talk, listen, and just be there.

I often talk about how we can support ourselves as performing artists, but what if you happen to be reading this blog and you have an opera singer in your life? Whether you're a devoted opera fan, a fellow singer, or someone who just discovered the magic of classical music, you may wonder, "How can I support the opera singers in my life or community?" I have a very small group of friends. Friends that really understand what I go through on a daily basis as an opera singer. They know that behind every aria I sing, no matter where in the world I am, is a person navigating a demanding and often unpredictable career path.


Below are some emotional and practical ways to support the opera singer in your life, whether they’re emerging, mid-career, or seasoned pros. Your support matters more than you know.


Emotional Support: Be Their Anchor During the Highs and Lows

1. Celebrate the wins (big or small).

Opera careers aren’t made overnight. A call-back, a chorus contract, or a local recital may seem minor—but to a singer, it can be a huge milestone. Cheer them on with encouraging texts, flowers, or even just showing up. There times when I forget to celebrate the "wins". That is when I always receive a text or kind word from a friend or family member who reminds me of how proud they are of me. Even during times when I am ready to give up, it means so much.


2. Listen without solving.

Rehearsals can be exhausting, auditions brutal, and rejection frequent. Sometimes all a singer needs is a compassionate ear. Be present without always trying to "fix" things.


3. Understand the lifestyle.

Opera singers often travel, rehearse at odd hours, and juggle multiple gigs. Recognizing and respecting that helps singers feel seen and valued.


4. Stay connected.

Even if your favorite opera singer is on the road or in rehearsal, a check-in message or thoughtful social media comment can make a big difference.


Practical Support: Be Their Behind-the-Scenes Hero

1. Attend their performances—live or virtually.

Showing up matters! Buy a ticket, bring friends, or stream their shows online. Artists thrive with visible support. I had an experience several years ago.


2. Promote their work on social media.

Share their performance flyers, music clips, or behind-the-scenes content. A simple tag or repost can introduce them to new audiences.


3. Hire them (or recommend them) when you can.

Need entertainment for a gala, fundraiser, or holiday event? Opera singers do more than arias—they sing Broadway, jazz, spirituals, and more. If you're not hiring, suggest them to someone who is.


4. Support financially—if possible.

Donate to their GoFundMe, Patreon, or buy their merchandise, music, or online classes. Many artists rely on creative income streams to stay afloat.


5. Offer your skills.

Are you a graphic designer, photographer, or accountant? Artists often need professional services but can't always afford them. Trading services or offering discounted rates can go a long way.


Bonus: For Opera Fans and Future Patrons

Want to support the future of opera? Here are a few bonus ideas:

  • Subscribe to blogs or listen to Harbour for the Arts podcast.

  • Join local arts councils or classical music organizations.

  • Bring young people to live opera events to cultivate the next generation of fans.

  • Support opera outreach programs, especially those focused on diversity, equity, and access to the arts.


Why It Matters

Supporting an opera singer goes far beyond applause at curtain call. It's about nurturing the artist behind the voice. When we uplift singers emotionally and practically, we ensure opera continues to thrive—not just as an art form, but as a vibrant, living culture. So the next time your favorite mezzo, tenor, or baritone pops up on your feed or stage—show up, share, and support. Your presence, kindness, and advocacy do make a difference.



 
 
 

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Bridgette Cooper, 728 Media Productions 2025

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